Thursday, October 29, 2009

On another note.

I just love this line.

At their heart, most pseudonymous identities are collaborations between the author, who provides the outline of a persona, and the audience, which fills in the blanks. The result is a sort of virtual superhero, an oracle more accurate than any mortal could hope to be. Compared to the elusive mastermind of the collective imagination, the real author inevitably disappoints.

From this month’s Wired.

Back to regular programming now. Which over here usually means clearing up masses of spam comments placed by guys who run Search Engine Optimisation firms. Other than that what news? Well, some Undies have been left out to dry as Undie is getting rid of Imagine – which should actually be known as the Sameer Nair family show (with Rakhi Sawant on the side). With Turner exiting Real, effectively the second flop channel after Peter and Indrani Mukerjea’s INX whatever, they’ve decided to get into used Undies. Not that I watch much of what are termed as General Entertainment Channels, though I must admit I did see a bit of Rakhi’s show and I will watch bits and pieces of ‘Who wants to be beaten up by an abusive husband?’ where Rahul Mahajan fritters away whatever little is left of his father’s legacy.
But good for him, everybody has the right to make money. And abuse substances. Even Andre Agassi. Listen the guy did drugs at a low-ebb of his life and I don’t know why the entire contrite moral brigade – hypocrites that they are – are condemning him. I actually found myself agreeing with Rick Reilly’s assessment of Agassi on his blog and I will buy the book. I liked Andre Agassi as a kid, his was a player with heart and not like a robot – both the one Agassi played against and the other one today. The robots are good but dull. And Agassi is the one that married Steffi Graf!
In other news, well it seems that the media’s horrible tradition of personal life destruction continues. And we stick with the same network, I’m not surprised at marriages breaking up and the fascination for older people, but the cast involved sometimes baffles me. To take a guess, there is a reason why some people call the evening prime time talking-head shows on NDTV (other than the 9PM news itself) the ‘boyfriend’ shows. I won’t be a hypocrite and pass comments on the lack of stability in people’s lives, but the sooner that both media bosses and HR inside the companies realize that, particularly their ace reporters/anchors, in both print and television do not have healthy and/or steady personal lives, that is a problem. This is worse than alcohol, well and in many cases it is pretty much responsible for alcohol abuse.
People can call journalists names, accuse us of biases and you know what, we all have biases. I try my utmost to not let my opinion of something affect something I’m working on, but any journalist, even the dumbest ones would be lying if they said that their biases did not impact them. The fact that some of us have been brought up the way we have comes through in the way we write or present. The fact remains that this is a job, and if you are good at what you do, and this is the sad part, you are usually asked to do more than you can handle simply because you are good.
The fact is that most journalists in most organizations would be what club football calls squad players, average for lack of a better word. If you are ‘an International’, and sorry for the football analogies here, you life is destined to be a horrible one. Yes, you will enjoy great professional success, meeting some really important people and your phone-book will bulge, or in some cases your mobile is so full of numbers that it pretty much stops functioning properly. It is a great feeling believe me, but man that completely screws up your sense of priorities and in many cases your life, because above all else it gives you a tremendously inflated opinion of yourself and sometimes you just can’t see clearly of who does matter. This is not about cracking a sale or becoming a General Manager, you really have access to power.
I should know, believe me. Thankfully, most of those closest to me in this profession, other than one notorious hold-out have managed to piece together their lives. Somewhat. But, honestly unless some action is taken, and taken soon things will only get worse. And the action should start from an organisation that needs it more than any other. The one in a disused cinema hall.

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

K...another gem..finally I'm somewhat convinced of your humanist, non-cynical side! So, is that a tacit acceptance that your lot, including you, need to set the work-life balance straight? Or are we still stuck at 50 reasons not to marry a Bong guy?

Anonymous said...

Maya?

K said...

Not much of an Illish fan though it does taste nice, I'm too lazy with the bones, which damages my 'Bong'-hood I guess.
Moot point, I think many of us need to get our lives in order. Indian journalists, at least thouse in high-profile organisations and jobs have a horrible divorce rate - both due to temptation and work-pressure. This is not sustainable and something needs to give. Rules that prevent couples from working in the same organisation is a start.

Anonymous said...

No..I'm not Maya..anonymous (no. 2?)..Haha.. a certain mystery is always welcome..just the way our dear blogger 'K' hides behind the veil..and yes, K I completely agree that something needs to give, come to think of it, I do know couples working in rival organisations..which is a lot worse than working in the same place..I think. Soundtrack, 'Tainted Love'...does sound ideal for this one..doesn't it?

Ananya said...

Hi K,

Of late the blogs have become too much of theorising and less on the tit bits of the media houses. The punch line as we call it if often missing.

Has echtee or the old lady on BS Zafar Marg ceased to exist along with a host of others.

Don't deprive us of the spicy developments.

AHT

Anonymous said...

who's the 'notorious hold-out'?

Anonymous said...

Hi.... what happened K, again u r lost in oblivion....

Athul B Nair said...

how you find all these facts.. :) I think you are working a lot for all these facts, anyway v good...